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My Story


The reason for this site...

Today is my birthday, I'm 36. It has taken me this long to wake up and realise that I'm a human being with the same basic needs and rights as everyone else.

It might sound strange to you, but if I can help ONE other person to open their eyes I will be satisfied.

I don't want to bore you with the gory details of my life. I just want to say that I've allowed people to walk all over me my whole life, in my personal life and at work. I felt inferior to everyone, I wanted to please everyone except myself. I've helped everyone else to reach their dreams but I neglected myself and my own dreams.

Now, at age 36 I finally realised that I should have just put myself first. It's that simple.

I don't have to make everyone elses problems mine. I don't have to be everyones social worker or supplier. I don't have to let everyone trample all over me.

I've realised that all the people I've helped in my 36 years of life, were not there for me when I needed someone. When I was at the lowest point of my life, I stood alone.

I am now at the point where my health is fading, I have no friends and I almost lost my job... Luckily I still have a job at the same group of companies, but I was demoted, my salary dropped and I was moved to another store. Now I work under people who I used to be equel to. At least the shock brought me down to earth, it woke me up. It allowed me to see my mistakes and it opened my eyes to see how people used me. I allowed it, but not anymore!!

I want to try and save one more person from having to go to that extreme. That's why I created this site today. I hope you find it helpful.

This is not about revenge, getting people back for what they did to you or changing your personality and becoming something you're not. You don't even have to change anything about yourself to accomplish this. You just have to change the way you SEE yourself!

See yourself for who and what you are. Realise that YOU are IMPORTANT!

Imagine if you weren't born, how many peoples lifes would that affect. And once you've realised how important you are, don't ever feel you have to stand back for or feel inferior to anyone.


I was given a book to read about personal change. "The 7 Habits of highly effective people - Stephen R. Covey" and the pages that follow here on my site are extracts from the book. Hope it helps you too.

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